Tonight was really fucking good. I did a lot more right than I did wrong. I also had amazing amounts of energy! I was feeling outgoing, confident and witty. I was cracking jokes with my wingmen and bringing the party. I was lifting other people up and having the time of my life. If you read my stuff you know that I model myself after Distant Light. His deal is bringing life to the party, creating an awesome atmosphere, and sweeping girls off their feet with his super outgoing, extroverted way of living. That’s what this night felt like for me. I wasn’t sweeping women off their feet, but I was making eye contact with all sorts of girls and seeing social dynamics on a new level. To keep balance though I’ll start out by saying what I fucked up.

I didn’t persist quite as much as I should have. I could have stayed in some sets more and stuck it out. Especially the easy ones where a girl says something like “ok I’m going to see my friends now” or whatever. I should not be excepting that crap. I should be plowing. That being said, 97% of what I did last night was amazing and I’m so happy with myself.

I opened so many sets it’s nuts. I wasn’t in that venue for 13 seconds before I was in set with a very attractive women. I stayed in for 15 minutes and got her number. Later my wingman would point to her and claim that she’s a Victoria Secret model and that there is no fucking way I talked to her. She was cute and I sort of blew myself out in a way because I didn’t fully believe that a girl like that would be into me. I could have persisted more and reopened her more throughout the night.

At any rate, after her I went on an opening streak and by 2:30, between me and my wingmen, we had easily talked to 80% of the women in the venue. No makeouts but I did get a fairly solid number. I felt like this girl was trying to game me. She seemed really into me until her friends pulled her away. I think 50/50 that number will lead me to meeting up with her again and closing her.

Another solid set with a very attractive woman. My ideal height, body type, she had it down. Immediately it’s on, she has her arm on me and I’m clawing her. Less than one minute and I go for the makeout but she turns her head. I believe (right or wrong) that I need to build more comfort. I’m being very aggressive which she likes, but I think I’ve maybe gone a bit too far. I tell her I was really fat in elementary school. I don’t know what effect this has because right at that moment her friend pulls her away. There’s definitely a chance I was too aggressive here and I blew it up. There’s that chance, but I regret nothing because I saw that it was on, I saw she wanted to kiss me and I just ran with it. Maybe I should have given it 3 minutes instead of less than 1, and escalated slower. I don’t know.

We find some almost model quality girls (which is really strange considering the venue, we question why the fuck they are there?). I open and it goes well for three minutes then it dies. But again, it died with something super soft like “we are going over here, nice meeting you”. I should have persisted.

I was also joking around with guys all night and that was fun! Guys can be great to socialize with between sets if they’re fun. That song “Is it just me, or is the sex so good I shouldn’t fuck for free?” Me and a guy were arguing that “It’s me” No way, fuck you fucker! It’s me!” Just goofing around having a blast.

Overall really good night. Amazing, expansive vibe and energy. I felt fantastic, I had a fucking blast. It was one of the funnest nights of game since the night before lol. Two super amazing nights out in a row, I love NYC! Also, in regards to progress I’m a few days away from having a very solid plan. I’m taking in a shit ton of content right now and I’m about to summarize it all then break it down so that I have about six weeks of challenges to target key areas of my game that need improvement. Let’s do it!

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