Went out last night around midnight. It was Saturday but I didn’t give a fuck, I just wanted to open a few sets and call it a night. Went to the local beerhall and opened two girls dressed in black. One had just gotten married that day and I congratulated her. The other one was not married and I focused on her. Had a great conversation, her eyes were saucers. However, even though she was obviously attracted she kept her distance. Every time I tried to close space she backed up a bit. I figure she had a boyfriend.
Ended up talking to the groom for ten minutes. Nice enough dude, although I feel bad that he’s now married to an unattractive woman. But I suppose someone has to get married to the less than ideal girls, sure as hell isn’t going to be me.
I leave the groom behind and go talk to a cute girl wearing a white hat. She’s from Bulgaria and also happens to be married. In the beginning there is a bit of indecisiveness but then my frame of “I’m awesome” wins and the conversation plays out on my terms. Eventually she leaves to go be with her friends / husband. Fair enough. I leave the beer hall, go back home feeling fantastic about myself. I went out solo, had some really cool interactions, and I feel like a million bucks.
*Game teaches you faster reaction speed. In the club sometimes you have about 1.16 seconds to do a great approach. After a while you get used to pulling the trigger without thinking, you trust your judgement. Interesting example happened today when my boss was getting out of a taxi and I had half second to see, before he closed the door, that he left his phone on the seat. Acted instantly on that and was able to stop the taxi before it pulled out into traffic. A year ago I don’t think I would have done this. I think I would have doubted my own judgement and not acted quick enough. Thanks game!
*I’m awesome, girls love me. I truly believe this.